I've been babysitting for a family in our squadron that has twin boys. They are about 15 months old right now and in a funky stage; they want to do things on their own but can't. They desperately try to communicate, but can't. There is lots of whining, not as much napping and the biggest change of all, moving. They aren't walking yet, but they crawl. Fast. I had them all day yesterday and they are with me again today. It's nice to be busy and be tired at the end of the day, but it's left me thinking about what on earth I'd do if we had kids, heck even just one.
J is gone a lot, deployments aside. Having your own kid means someone doesn't come and pick them up at the end of the day giving you time for a quiet dinner, a hot shower and a full night of sleep. How in the heck do so many military wives manage with a house full of young kids and a husband who is frequently away and, many, without any family support near by? It's a down right terrifying thought. One of the various reasons we don't have any kiddos yet.
And yes, I've heard it many times, it's different when they are your own. But the only difference I can see is that instead of a part time job, it's full time. No breaks, no rest, no help. Anyway... Things are going better today. Yesterday there were no naps to be had! Today they are sleeping as I type. Sleep on boys, sleep on!
After the twins left yesterday I did a little mini house cleaning. Dusted and vacuumed, shook rugs and swept floors, cleaned the kitty's area and ran some laundry. Is it bad that J's been gone a week and a half and I'm still washing his clothes...? I will have to get down to a serious house clean Sunday afternoon or Monday.
Dinner was a kid's paradise, Cars mac and cheese, a hot dog and applesauce. Don't judge; it's quite a step up from a bowl of cold cereal.
Wednesday night means the house fills up with the folks from our small group at church. Love it!
I also got to actually talk to J yesterday for about 5 minutes. It was so great to hear his voice. He's still flying, sleeping, and flying again. He said they keep them busy like that for 4-5 days and then let them have 24-36 hours worth of a break. Honestly, we'd both rather have him flying. He stays busy and the times goes faster and I feel like he's at least being useful while he's away from home.
Praise God I've been feeling better this week and had a productive doctors appointment Tuesday. I'm hoping that it wont be much longer and they will finally figure out my stomach issues and find a treatment that will help.