Tuesday, April 22, 2014

Easter 2014

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I’m going to start by saying I hate these pictures. I’ve reached the extra large puffy stage of pregnancy. No, I’m truly not fishing for compliments. Absolutely nothing anyone says would make me feel less huge and/or puffy. But someday I may be glad I stuck these photos in the 2014 blog book. Happy Easter 2014! Our last "childless" holiday. Next Easter we'll have an almost one year old?! PS- I think J looks pretty handsome! He’s down 13 lbs. and did awesome on his PT test last week. 

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This was some of our Easter prep work from Saturday. J hard boiled eggs and helped me make 6 pounds of apples into applesauce. I made grandma’s rolls and cupcakes from scratch. It was a lot of work for a pregnant lady, but well worth it. Easter dinner was delicious; we also had a fall off the bone ham, green beans with butter and almonds and mashed potatoes. Unfortunately I ate too much of everything and paid for it by feeling yucky the rest of the evening. Oh well. I think it’s safe to say it was our last really big, really nice dinner for a bit. Probably also the last time I'll be seeing my china for a bit as well.

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J surprised me with some peeps and chocolate marshmallow eggs on Easter morning. Very sweet since I’d been looking for peeps, but I couldn’t find them anywhere? Hello people, it’s Easter! He got his customary caramel Cadbury egg.

Then we went to church. I’m glad we did, it wouldn’t be Easter without church. But getting dressed up is harder than it once was and our church did a giant combined service downtown with around 2,000 people which resulted in an extra long and quite hot service. We were happy get to home, comfortable and open the windows to a beautiful, sunny 70 degree day!

One Easter casualty this year; those hard boiled eggs. After all my cooking earlier in the day I was too tired to do anything but crash with some ice cream and watch The 10 Commandments Saturday night. And then we settled down to watch golf and I finished up bean’s quilt after Easter dinner Sunday so we never did color any eggs… Although I ate one this morning for breakfast.

So Easter is over, and it marked week is #37 of my pregnancy. We are officially into month 10. Why don’t they explain that you’re really pregnant for 10 months anyway?!

J has his instructor upgrade academics through Thursday; we’re praying I don’t go into labor so he gets that all finished. I also have some appointments that I’d like to keep this week, namely an adjustment with my chiropractor and an hour long massage.

The last "big" item on our to-do list before Bean's arrival was to install the car seat. that got done at lunch time Monday. It wasn't as hard as I feared, and now it's in and we are good to go. At least as good to go as you possibly can be... of course after Thursday!! :-)

Monday, April 21, 2014

We’re Aunty and Uncle!

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Mary Jane. Born on April 9, 2014 and weighing in at just 6lb. 2oz. We haven’t met her yet, but we already love her!

Sunday, April 20, 2014

Baby Journal: 36 Weeks

Pregnancy #1
 
Month #9
 
Week #36 (4-13-14 – 4-19-14) 
 
Weight Gain #2  
 
Bump Big. My skin hurts in places, not pleasant.   
    
Baby Nicknames  Bean
 
Symptoms  Braxton Hicks: lots of cramping this week. Heartburn.  
 
Cravings  Doritos!!!
 
Emotions  I’ve noticed I’ve been more weepy this week. 
 
Sleep  Meh. I had one good night this week where I slept for about 5 straight hours. But my upper back has been killing me at night making sleep elusive.  
 
The big moment of the week  Another doctors visit. I’m still 1cm dilated. BP is fine but I’m puffy; swollen ankles on and off and now my hands have started to swell and my knuckles hurt and my face looks puffy. Yuck! 
 
On a happier note I had an hour long hot stone pedicure this week and that was fabulous.
 
Weather  Saturday was beautiful at nearly 65 degrees. Otherwise it was a chilly week in the 30-40’s and quite windy.  
 
Current events  Ferry crashed in Korea killing hundreds. Boston Marathon 1 year bombing anniversary is early next week. Easter weekend!  
 
Worries  Doing the whole labor thing! And going into labor before J’s academics are done next week… 
 
Looking Forward to  I’ve got both a chiropractor visit and prenatal massage scheduled various days this week! Hooray.
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Thursday, April 17, 2014

catching up and waxing poetical about iced tea…

I just need to start by saying that one of my simple pleasures in life is iced tea. Not that brown sugar water you find down south (sorry Lynn), but real, plain, strong Lipton iced tea without any additions. I made the first pitcher of the year last week in celebration of a day that almost hit 70 degrees. We grilled hamburgers from our new stock pile of grass fed beef. I made rice crispy treats. There is something extra special about iced tea and rice crispy treats together. They are a reproducible, edible piece of my childhood. They bring back memories of visits to my Grandma P’s; cookouts with dozens of cousins and aunts and uncles running around, sleeping on these fold out bed cushion things, playing with my Mom’s old toys. Since we ate the entire pan of rice crispys embarrassingly quickly, I enjoyed some iced tea at lunch today with Doritos. I hate to admit it, but Doritos are another of my life's simple pleasures. I almost never buy them, mostly because then I eat them, but also because J doesn’t like them (what?!). But dang it I’ve really been wanting Doritos, and I’m pregnant, and I knew I had iced tea at home and so I bought some! Doritos and iced tea. Another thing that reminds me of summer time and being a kid and not caring what I ate and baked beans and hot dogs and my Mom and siblings and swimming… I really don’t crave Doritos until the weather starts to get nice. Anyway, I have really been enjoying iced tea, crispy treats and Doritos this past week. And I felt like it needed to be recorded for posterity. It really is the little things sometimes.

And have I mentioned on here, doubtful because I’ve blogged so little lately, that we bought an eighth of a cow last week? Yup. Grass fed beef from our doula. They had two cows they recently had processed and when I heard we could get as much or little as we wanted I jumped on it. Typically you have to buy a minimum of a quarter of an animal, most of the time more than that. The eighth was perfect for the two of us and our small deep freeze and the fact that we don’t actually eat very much red meat. But I got carried away by the romantic idea of local grass fed meat and lots of warm summer evenings when it stays light until 11pm and grilling burgers and steaks. So we bought the cow, well an eighth of the cow. The hamburgers by the way were delicious!


The weather here has been up and down. This past week it’s been pretty chilly with high’s in the 30’s. This is of course a major heat wave compared with most of our winter, but after about a week of 50-60 degrees it feels nippy. It’s supposed to warm up again starting tomorrow and start staying in the 40-50 range. Aside from what’s left of the huge piles of snow we are snow free (knock on wood).

We took advantage of the really nice weather last week and cleaned out the garage. That was a big item on my nesting list that I wasn’t sure was going to actually happen before baby arrived. Very happy it’s done! The patio furniture and grill are back outside, we threw away and recycled a ton of junk that had built up over the winter. J swept out the dirt, dust and yuck. I reorganized the shelving. The very last bits of Christmas finally got put away. Don’t judge about the Christmas stuff, I’d forgotten we put lights up because they were under feet of snow for so long.

Today whilst cleaning the laundry room and kitchen I got distracted and the entire pantry got cleaned out and reorganized. It’s been on my radar, but I’ve been so busy sewing or too tired to get around to it. Hooray for yet another area cleaned out and neat! I think it’s safe to say I’m nesting. Or at least that the 5 hour stretch of sleep I got last night made a huge difference to my energy level. The last big thing on my nesting list is the cars. They both need cleaned, as in professionally detailed, inside and out! After a winter as cold and gross and snowy as we had they’re a mess. Luckily you can pay people to do that and there’s a great place in town! I’ve started having visions of cleaning out our master closet… but I wont die if that doesn’t happen. That project wasn’t on my original list, and I really can’t do it without J’s help. We shall see.

Today I finished my quilting for Bean’s quilt! The binding is cut and sewed together. Now I just need to trim up the quilt itself and iron the binding. Once I get the binding sewn on the front all that left is hand stitching. I’m wanting to be done with it by Monday! I’ve got a few other smaller sewing projects I’d like to get done before Bean arrives. And I really just want to see the quilt completed!!

What else is going on in life around here…

J has been busy. He had a PT test yesterday which he passed. 98%! He’s also been busy doing his pre-check list of sims, flights, and school work for his instructor upgrade. He starts his formal class for instructor Monday. He also got asked by his boss to stay on as his exec in the office until October. This job, originally supposed to be a short few month gig, will have turned into an entire year! But his boss said he really liked J and didn’t want to give him up. I can understand that, he’s a keeper. That means he will be headed to Alabama at the end of October for a 2 month school. We thought that might happen this summer. That also means we have a lot to figure out regarding our new little family for those two months; who will go where and how and when, etc. But the details can wait! As always, everything is subject to change.

I’m heading into town shortly for a pedicure. So I’m going to go work on the quilt some more until then.

Last piece of news is so big it deserves it’s own post. Tomorrow! :-)

Wednesday, April 16, 2014

The Finished Quilt!

First, some housekeeping.

To ensure that blue marker really does go away soak the whole quilt in cold water before washing. Put it through a cold rinse cycle on your machine and then check it. Once you’re sure the blue is all gone you can wash it! Front load washer, mild detergent, no softener (or use white vinegar), warm water on delicate. I also use a shout color catcher sheet just in case any of the fabrics decide they want to bleed. Dry it on delicate with dryer balls and not dryer sheets.

And then your quilt is totally completely done and beautiful and ready! So exciting!!

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Tuesday, April 15, 2014

Niece’s baby quilt: Part VII

Binding
The thought did cross my mind to do a rainbow binding using strips of fabric from the stars. And then I decided I didn’t have enough energy for that and since I had enough backing fabric left that became my binding.
 
I cut 2.5 inch wide strips. and sewed them together on the bias. Then trimmed the extra fabric from my bias seam (the triangle) to 1/4 inch. How did I know how many strips to cut? Well, there’s an app for that! It’s called QuiltCalc by Robert Kaufman fabrics. P1000436 P1000437 P1000438P1000439
 
Before you cut your seams off to 1/4 inch on the wrong side of your fabric, make sure you sewed things together the right way! For some reason bias seams mess with my head and I’ve ripped out so many of these seams… P1000440 P1000441 P1000442 
Iron your new little bias seam open. It’s kind of a pain, but it’s worth it in the end. Don’t just fold it to one side or another. Then you get to fold the entire length of your binding (there will be multiple bias seams to be sewed, trimmed and ironed open) in half length wise. Break out your best press, iron and GO!P1000443 P1000444 P1000445 
Next you need to prepare you quilt for the binding you now have ready. That means trimming the edges so the three layers (top, batting, back) all line up. You’ll end up with a nice scrap heap of batting and backing at the end. Your quilt top shouldn’t be cut, it’s your guide and you are trimming the other two layers to fit it. P1000446 P1000447 P1000448

Ta-da! Except for the binding your quilt is done; pieced, quilted and all nicely trimmed up. The second picture is the binding pinned on. Line up the raw edge of the quilt and the raw edge of the binding; pin. Oh, and don’t forget to fold on end of your binding in about an inch and iron it down (so you don’t have a raw edge at the end). P1000449 P1000450
Here’s a close up of the raw edges being matched up before I sewed. You will go all the way around your quilt using a 1/4 inch seam allowance. And yes, there are corners, do not panic. Warnings! DO NOT start at a corner or too near an end of your quilt and DO leave the first few inches unstitched so you can trim and tuck things neatly together at the end!

Stop sewing about a 1/4 inch from the corner. Lock in your stitch (forward and back one stitch will do). Now take it out of the machine. Turn your quilt so that you'll be in position to start sewing the binding onto the next side of your quilt. You’re going to make a corner by folding your binding first up and then down (see the second picture; I’ve pinned it after folding it). Your needle should go down 1/4 inch from the back edge of the quilt and 1/4 inch from the side edge of the quilt. And your stitching will pick up right where you stopped it a second ago before you removed the quilt from the machine and turned it.

For the best tutorial (with lots more great pictures) for binding check out Old Red Barn’s wonderful tutorial!!P1000451 P1000452
Keep sewing around until you almost reach your starting point (give yourself a few un-stitched inches). You will probably need to cut some of your binding off because it tends to smooth out and you end with extra. this is a good problem. Trim so your ends overlap by about an inch. Tuck the raw edge into the nice pressed edge and continue sewing until it’s one continuous line! And you’re done with your machine.

To finish the binding you will fold the binding over from the front and do a blind stitch by hand all around the back side!

Monday, April 14, 2014

Niece’s baby quilt: Part VI

Quilting the quilt
Here is where the directions ended.
 
I’ve never quilted something this big, and I don’t think I’ll ever quilt something any bigger on my home machine. For the practical reasons of time and cost I thought it best to do all the quilting myself. I also wanted to do it for sentimental reasons. That does mean extra steps. Instead of sending your 3 pieces, top, batting and back, to a quilter you have to baste them together, do the quilting and then trim up all the sides all yourself before adding your binding. And I also had to decide how exactly I wanted to quilt this. I loved the idea of a meander, especially since this pattern doesn’t lend itself to straight lines and “stitching in the ditch”. But I’d never done free motion quilting; I didn’t even have the right foot for my machine.
 
So I did some on-line research, ordered the quilting foot, bought a stencil and prayed!
 
First I tested this blue marker extensively on fabric scraps from the quilt to ensure that it really did go away with water. It’s very disconcerting to have spent all this time creating a beautiful quilt top only to draw all over it with ugly blue marker. By the end this blue squiggly pattern covered the entire inside portion of the quilt top. I couldn’t wait to get rid of it! But it was a life saver for the actual quilting; there is no way I could have free-handed and made up the meandering as I went.
 
I started quilting in the middle and worked my way out; side to side and up and down. Free motion quilting takes some muscles, so I’d stencil a few sections, then I’d quilt a few sections, repeat. It took at least a week. Once I made it to the edge of the inside of the quilt top I decided I’d had enough meandering! I loved how it looked, but I thought some stitch-in-the-ditch and straight line quilting of the boarders would be fine.
 
I was loving it as I went along, but I couldn’t wait to get the binding done so I could wash and dry everything and see the final product!!   
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Sunday, April 13, 2014

Baby journal: week 35

Pregnancy #1
 
Month #9
 
Week #35 (4-6-14 – 4-12-14) 
 
Weight Gain #0  
 
Bump Ever larger   
   
Baby Nicknames  Bean
 
Symptoms  My ankles have begun to swell, just slightly (+1). Some mild reflux & heartburn. 
 
Cravings  I am loving jelly beans, pickles and craving ice cream.  
 
Emotions  Anxiety about labor.  
 
Sleep  Up frequently at night; some nights my hips bother me, other nights my back.
 
The big moment of the week  We became Aunt and Uncle! My sister had her baby. She went a few days early, had a natural labor and everyone is perfect and healthy. So exciting!
 
I also had a doctor’s visit; BP was great so he’s not concerned about the swelling. Had my strep B test and first internal check. Baby is head down and I’m at 1cm.  
 
Weather  We’ve warmed up and I think spring is here. We had a day with a high of 69! Rain, beautiful rain instead of snow. Flooding of course is now an issue.  
 
Current events  It’s The Masters weekend. There was a school stabbing. UND lost their first game of the frozen four in men’s hockey. 
 
Worries  Hearing about my sister’s labor has made mine seem more real and imminent. I’m ready to be on the recovery side as opposed to the anxiously awaiting side!  
 
Looking Forward to  Coloring eggs for Easter. My pedicure and massage I booked this week. Baby coming and my Mom’s visit! Oh, and finishing up Bean’s quilt :)
 
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Saturday, April 12, 2014

Niece's baby quilt: Part V

Piecing the quilt back & Basting the layers
 
The instructions call for 3 and 3/4 yards of fabric for the backing and 5/8 yards of fabric for the binding. I purchased 4 yards of backing fabric and used the leftovers for the binding and still had fabric to spare. You could also piece together additional 2.5” strips of colored fabric for a rainbow binding. Really, the possibilities are endless.

But back to the backing ;-)

After measuring the quilt I simply got rid of the selvedge ends and cut my fabric in half across the length then sewed it back together. That is all it took to get my backing. That left me with a piece approximately 60” wide and 82” long; so I had around 25” to spare (hence my binding!). P1000404P1000405

The next step was to baste the layers together. I have never used pins, so despite the size of this quilt I stuck with what I knew; I spray basted (fan on and windows open since a North Dakota winter doesn’t lend itself to outdoor spray basting). Due to the size of the quilt the only place that worked for me was the floor.P1000406

I always spray on my batting instead of directly onto the cotton fabric. I also iron over the layers once they are sprayed and smoothed into place. Two steps that might not be essential, but they also don’t hurt anything. You’ll need to spray twice; once to stick your quilt top to the batting, once to stick your backing to the batting.P1000407

And now the quilt is ready for the final two steps: quilting and binding. I like to roll, as opposed to folding, my basted quilt when I’m not working on it until it’s been quilted completely.

Monday, April 7, 2014

Book Review

I know I said I was done stressing myself out with pregnancy and baby books. But there are two topics I really am in need of additional information about. One of these is vaccines. I started this book and tore through it. Maybe I'm just a huge nerd, but I found it very interesting, dare I say fascinating at times.

It's an easy read. Extremely well organized, to the point, and fact driven. This is not a drawn out, emotionally charged narrative of why vaccines are either good or bad. It reads more like a text book, but I say that appreciatively! I wanted facts and as unbiased an expert opinion as possible on the topic; I think this book gives you that.

Now, if you're super anti-vaccine you may find this to be a pro-vaccine book. However if you're a vaccine lover, you may find this to be an anti-vaccine book. It depends on your mindset entering into the book. I went into it not against vaccines, but knowing that I wasn't sold on the CDC or AAP full vaccine schedule either. I'd call myself middle of the road, and I thought this book was as well.

It has helped me come up with our own unique vaccine schedule. I did a little more digging online, but the majority of what I felt I needed was contained within this one resource. I might just buy it.

There were a few things I disagree with the author about; those were the things I did further research on. So between the doctor author, the nurse (myself) and some more "crunchy" friends and online resources I feel armed to fight the vaccine battle. We're still going to do the majority of typical vaccines, but on a delayed schedule. There are a few we're going to skip because I feel they're unnecessary or too new at this point. Unfortunately vaccines are part of modern medicine which is money driven instead of best practice driven often times. You must be a smart consumer!

One last point; maybe it's because I've got a medical background, but there are some funny moments in the book. He throws in snarky comments, mostly self-derogatory, and makes you laugh. He also does give you his basic thoughts in a short paragraph vaccine by vaccine. Obviously there is bias there, but I found it helpful. He also points out several times in different places why there might be bias and conflict of interest entering into the "expert opinions" out there. I appreciated that.

OK, enough. Bottom line I really liked the book, found it quite helpful and would recommend it highly!

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